Children love for comparing, what method?

Netizens to leave a message on the Internet said: son into a international kindergarten class with ginger ginger downstairs neighbor's son, a good friend, two people often play together, but after a long time, found that his son into a becomes more more unreasonable, especially love comparisons, like rob toy ginger ginger hand, always feel that somebody else something good, it is to importune, crying, I really don't know what to do, let her very upset. Actually this kind of work, the home has of her mom dad should have experienced a similar situation. This kind of mental state about children, parents should correct, don't think children were young just a lark, also don't blindly accosted the beat scold, should use the right way to be directed.

Mom dad to rational objective, grasps the moderate every mom dad love their children, but the right love is spoiled, more is encouraged. In competing for their own children with other children, to blindly cover for their children, to blindly blame the child, you should be rational to clear up the cause effect of operation. Sometimes the child can realize his mistake, you only need to guide they should love each other; Some children self-esteem is strong, I know I may be the other side is wrong, is willing to let go may forgive you say I'm sorry, you'll think of some way to let him pull farther into space, to help him calm emotions, such as his own wronged, dissatisfaction with pour out, then it with his calm in the 123. For the child's peer, you should be more rational treat, don't blindly, to blindly rejection, to understand his "comparison" on the back of the real reason. Don't let the kids think mom dad's money earned is very easy, you can try to give him some mission assignment, then give him a echo, but the good can be a spiritual encouragement, such as small red flowers, little star, after collected many small red flowers may be little stars, giving him a complete time of hope.