Attention of childrens education

Think as long as immensely satisfied the material needs of the child, loves children, actually this is a kind of ignorance of love. A child's need for love is only the material, more important is spiritual. In life, some parents only pay attention to give children a variety of nutrition, but ignore the good moral behavior habits for children cultivation of social adaptation ability. Some parents give their children bought many books to buy the computer, have no right to correctly guide the children to read books use the computer, also don't understand to the child's spirit to encourage, praise, is bound to be the mind of the necessary support all is love, however, this kind of spiritual love even more important for the development of children.

Excessive protection of children, parents do a lot for your child should have to do by children themselves, it virtually deprived children develop their ability of time, also reduced their spirit of self-reliance self-confidence. This love constraints, the child's self developed, the harmful to the child independent social life in the future. Therefore, parents should let the child to a certain extent, self conduct, according to the children do want to do what I thought, even when encounter problems difficulties give analysis help, rather than designed for children in the future.

To the child's request too harsh, often criticized, corporal punishment in children. Some parents love children very much, indeed, but, on the concept of fault to think "sticks out under a son" " dozen failing". Whenever the kindergarten taipans lesson plans the imagination of the performance of the children parents is the same, will solve the problem through the beat scold, it often pose difficult to compensate the wound to the child's body mind to carry out. This love brings to the child is joy, but the pain. This pushy love tend to constitute a contrary mood emotion, hatred, to parents, to others society, even of his own hate. Society of criminal suspects in many cases, have more less in childhood adolescence to mom dad to bring the mind of the wound, then develop into the elements of instability in society.