Parents need to understand the bilingual kindergarten nine parenting

Every parents education child is learning skills. Recently, the British mind at Jeremy dean in famous academic website "blog" published stories, summarizes the nine idea in 2013 to study the discussion, for parents to supply mind-sets.

1. Couples with children more happy. Many new mom dad, in the face of the baby's crying, mischievous, picky eaters often at a loss, even called the child "little devil". Professor nelson at the university of California, riverside, however, research found that children bring more happiness than suffering mom dad. Especially my father would get quite a lot of positive energy children goodwill. Therefore, argues that parents do much the experience in child care tends to grasp happiness, rather than complain. The parenting as achievement, straighten mentality also more briefly.

2. Put the child first better. Ashton James, professor at the university of Amsterdam in the Netherlands, comfortable, found that the child in the first place of mom dad better, feeling more truth. But need to remind is, that does mean that can spoil the child. Children make mistakes can appropriate reward. Children want, should buy resolute don't back down.

3. Don't have kids around all day. Some parents think that love is all around the child, like "helicopter", want to do something immediately "fly" to "fire". American Mary at the university of Washington, in the professor Lin thought that meticulous care for children are more likely to be depressed, self-care ability is poor. Parents should learn to modest, of cutting the nursery wall painting children solve the problem by themselves. Especially when children feel be tube too much, parents to accept rather than complain " understood".

4. To prevent the severe criticism. According to the survey, about 90% of the American parents admitted to the severe criticism of the children had at least one. The situation in our country also see a lot of. The university of Pittsburgh psychologist Wang Mingte (sound), the study found serious blame teenagers around the age of 13, may make their behavior more extravagant. Is given priority to with education claims that parents in the children when they make mistakes, but reasonable selecting the appropriate opportunities