Parents pay attention to: the right encouraging more power to kindergarten children

Both life study work, active people are more popular. Many parents hope their children is an active boy, parents do need to worry too. But, in fact, many children always lack of initiative, why is this so? This may be their parents in children's growth, a bit less encouraging! The children have no power, work initiative is greatly reduced. How should parents encourage children, let children do things is more more active?

Learn to respect encourage children's choice

When we complain about class kindergarten children do things too passive, do every thing to talk with mom dad, always can't make a decision, also want to think about whether they give the child too little of the initiative.

Whether rightly wrongly, give the child chosen point of a great courage. When children start to learn their choices, such as choosing what to wear today, choose how to develop the schedule in the evening. Due to the new beginner, these choices can sometimes give him bring you a lot of trouble. When arranging the night time, for example, to do the homework time is too short, was in bed, be completed feel so sleepy to the whole family can't sleep. Then you shouldn't say "told you to listen to my advice", it will make he doubted his own thinking to rely on parents' decision, but "I'm glad to have you will arrange your schedule, try a few more times can be arranged" such words, can let him in remorse, but actively to seek solutions.

When he didn't get the choice of respect, can let him to give up doubt active thinking. For the choice of children, if parents easily criticism. So always into disappointment, he will always doubt his decision is correct, confident. This leads to what he's thinking doing things when there will be a dependent psychology.