The kindergarten children obedient?

"If the baby good, mom to give you buy sugar to eat!" The calculating do calculate in bribes the baby? Do it right? How to use the reward this stuff, right standard baby's good behavior?

Don't bribe

Everywhere filled with temptations in life, to work overtime, may get extra bonus; Spend money on cosmetics, will also get shopping coupons. This special exchange constantly stimulate our life, mom dad also unconsciously baby will use this way: "eat noodles, can play a teddy bear." "Pick up your toys, you can see cartoons." "If bad children quarrel, we will go to the pet in a minute."

Baby haven't really realize the meaning of the work itself, for example, eat noodles may increase nutrient, make haste to grow; Cleaning the room is in order to have more space to play. The temptation of a harmless by accident, but if form habits, after a bribe to let the baby compliance blindly obedient, that's a big mistake, slowly, the kindergarten, the purpose of wall act the role of the baby will be very clear, is for the sake of rewarded for hard work.

Health encouraging

Mom dad hope the baby to do the right job, but because to get a gift to do it, but because of who I am in improving autonomy under the action of force self-esteem, the values to do it. This needs mom dad the right guidance, health is a positive solution.

Appreciate to have skills

In language, hug, touch to the kindergarten curriculum baby know that you take pride in his behavior, it will more motivate his standard behavior, in order to get you more praise, which is more than just a gift the more valuable. But should pay attention to language skills, too appropriate, focus on praising behavior itself, rather than a baby, for example "baby you cleaning the room, great!" Instead of "baby cleaning the room, is really a good boy!"